Resources for Covert Abuse Survivors

Covert abuse, also commonly referred to as psychological or emotional abuse, is a form of abuse that leaves no visible scars but inflicts deep emotional wounds on its victims. Unlike physical abuse, covert abuse is often subtle, manipulative, and difficult to detect. Survivors of covert abuse often suffer in silence, unaware of the resources available to support them on their journey to healing and reclaiming their lives. However, it’s important to know that help is out there.

Advocacy and education services play a crucial role in providing support to survivors of covert abuse. These services aim to empower survivors with information, connect them with appropriate resources, and create a network of support to help them navigate their healing process. If you are a survivor of covert abuse, here are some valuable resources that can assist you:

Hotlines:

1. National Domestic Violence Hotline: The National Domestic Violence Hotline provides 24/7 support, information, and access to resources for anyone affected by domestic violence. You can reach them at 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) or visit their website at www.thehotline.org.
2. Next Door Solutions to Domestic Violence: Next Door Solutions offers comprehensive services to survivors of domestic violence, including covert abuse. They provide emergency shelter, counseling, legal advocacy, and community support. You can contact their hotline 24/7 at (408) 279-2962 or visit their website at www.nextdoor.org.
3. YWCA: The YWCA is dedicated to eliminating racism, empowering women, and promoting peace, justice, freedom, and dignity for all. They provide a range of services for survivors of domestic violence, including counseling, support groups, and legal assistance. Contact your local YWCA branch or visit www.ywca.org to find resources near you.

Accessible Education Resources:

1. DomesticShelters.org: DomesticShelters.org is a comprehensive online resource that provides information, articles, and a searchable directory of domestic violence shelters and programs across the United States. Their website includes resources specifically addressing covert abuse, helping survivors gain a better understanding of their experiences and access the support they need. Visit www.domesticshelters.org to learn more.
2. Dr. Ramani: Dr. Ramani Durvasula, a renowned psychologist and expert in narcissism and manipulation, offers valuable insights and guidance for survivors of covert abuse through her books, videos, and online platforms. Her work focuses on helping survivors understand the dynamics of covert abuse and reclaim their lives. You can find her resources at www.doctor-ramani.com.
3. WomenSV: Domestic violence nonprofit WomenSV focuses on covert abuse and coercive control. Their mission is to empower survivors, train providers and educate the community to break the cycle of covert abuse and coercive control in intimate partner relationships. WomenSV and its founder, Ruth Patrick Darlene, provide informational videos and articles in addition to a list of resources on their website. Visit www.womensv.org for more information.

It’s important to remember that you are not alone. These resources are designed to support you, provide information, and help you on your journey towards healing and reclaiming your life after covert abuse. Reach out to them, and remember that your experiences are valid. Healing is possible, and there are people and organizations ready to walk alongside you every step of the way.